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Marriage can be a waste of time,energy,resource and life. It can be filled with pain, regret, resentment ,bitterness and in time hatred. You will feel you are never understood and often taking for granted. God can not be blamed totally for this. Bcos he planned for marriage to be between two complete beings and not half plus quarter. Many of us this days have so many insecurities and we go ahead and marry insecure people. That's a ticking  time bomb. Love is not enough to weather the storms. But the Good news is GOD IS MORE THAN ENOUGH.  Whatever it is. No matter how far apart you have grown. No matter how deep the hurt and mistrust, TAKE IT TO THE LORD IN PRAYER. He is the fixer. He knows how to fix each person and by so doing, He fixes the marriage. Don't prolong this. Your kids may be affected for life. Don't try to fix your spouse. Stop threatening divorce or separation. Ask God to fix you and your spouse. Your efforts have only scattered things more. By strength s...

Its not fulfillment that one is a champion or always wins at what he does, but it is that he fall in love. Giants, midgets, weak and strong people have stormed the earth, each by just the touch of love feel the irony of their actual self; the weak become strong, the small feels big and vice verse.             We all falls in love with that one person who waltz into our lives and makes us see reason why it never worked out with other people, that one person that when we set gaze upon, even the skies becomes small and everything sounds like a melody, the wind becomes cool, that one person you can be yourself around and you never have to pretend about yourself because you have the ability you see yourself through their eyes. Every smile, the heart skips a beat, every moment, worth every page on your journal, every kiss, eternal, and every touch, breathtaking.           ...